. Survey both parents, but also students. Both the general secondary school students, but also focus on secondary school students.
Some parents found their children went to the cafe, was incredible, after a few words to kicking. In his view, the child afraid to dare the. Some tightly control the child's pocket money, that money can not accomplish thing. But some parents are moved by the affection and wisdom to children. Different treatment to produce a different result. Those incorrigible, the child continued to go to Internet cafes is how you think?
they say: just pay attention, the opportunity to save money, or some, breakfast, snacks, can save down, school fees, they also can take the opportunity to have extra. classes of students go to Internet cafes it?
He said: really play it, just to see how those network game in the end is all about. they are not stupid, nor ever will be playing the game. br> can not be denied, that empty nest children, home is not attractive to him, and the game room is very warm. The survey found that these children, mostly because the beginning of play, their parents did not know. and other parents found out, children have become addicted, and then pipe it difficult to imagine.
indulged in online games and delay the learning of children are many. for minors, parents should take full responsibility.
just mentioned that children are curious, the online games popular in the world, kids do not want to be impossible. However, some children may really do not control, because he has his own ideal of life, immune to the game.
However, for fail-safe, the parents or the children knocked the alarm as well.
then play center for heavier children, parents how to deal with it? which method better then?
mother is a nurse, Xiao Ming, virtuous, intelligent. She will not emotional, but starting to move their children from family.
She said: Family peace is our greatest happiness. If at the end of school hours I do not see you, you know how much I worried? Can not see his son, and I do all the work can not go on, you can understand my heart? I believe that if you do not see my home, do not know that I went, you would worry me, because we no one can do without. will not be indifferent. After school, he knows I'm always thinking about him, so he would not easily change course. Every day I go home on time to cook, prepare hot meals, and other children home, the children had never let me down. went to the cafe. They do not drink, do not eat to dry Hao Zhao, the children did not prepare in advance, so eat very little breakfast, while the mother is prepared to not hungry at noon, the last, but advised her to go back to the children .
leave the game room, Hou teacher asked the child: How do I find it a waste of my life you? value of such a pity to waste life! I can not forgive myself. Son, play this and your own ideals detached it? I do not like playing baseball, swim, read books, it helped me do some household chores.
You're so smart kids allows the game to spend life, is really a pity. enriched.
parents are doing in the bathroom aviation business. They believe that poor economic conditions when they were children, did not go to university, very sorry and do everything possible to make money for the children to study, the children's food and clothing expense, are the best in class. However, as parents spare the children to their school and start from the first two days, it is often a person into the cafe. Parents have repeatedly come back to find the child from the cafe, both hardware and software, that children will not go again, as before continue to do business.
time, they come back at night and found the child was not at home, very anxious. Two people driving past the child went to Internet cafes, one by one to find, even not found. Two people anxious, in Internet cafes or any other eventuality? Heart is really not the end, the police, a short time, not the police, afraid of delays. Two people anxious driving around in the city, see the Internet cafes, or look for it and are at a loss when the children found out from the front of a cafe. Mother told the child was about to get off, Dad to a locked door, a step on the gas, followed by a screeching halt, after a shrill loud noise, the car stopped in front of the children, the child scared a reel. People all around on both sides of the road came, Dad shouted: I'll give you smashed, believe it or not! still reluctant.
Now, on the flight on the high school, he said: I was afraid of what happened, and now they know not what, and not found. Go to Internet cafes every day to play for a while, she said, so better than some of the evening. Father, a business trip and found her back too late to question the child: I'm back to training, it might as well not come back!
Most students addicted to Internet cafes in the process is basically the same. Generally to 12 years old, few people go hand in hand into the cafe. Most children have their own ideas, just look, do not fall into the trap, only a few children, unable to extricate themselves step by step toward a situation, even to the third year, still playing all night.
As a teacher, who lectures when I am quick thinking, quick response, but obsessed with online games and give up because the students feel very distressed to learn. Even after doing the work, this situation has been some improvement, but overall little improvement. Here, I have to analyze the growth process of these children, to parents to learn.
I personally think that children can crush bars, mostly due to family environment. Junior high school kids after school and independent, have access to Internet cafes guts alone. However, if the parents work schedules according to the school children waiting to go home, the children learn in a tense, there have loving parents like his, there are delicious meals waiting for him, a football took him a day to enjoy enjoyable family life, difficult to produce the idea is not time to go home.
many children into the cafe, because often no one home, the child returned home, Mom and Dad can not see, not even food. Parents found the child's problems, only to find the reasons from the child, limiting the child, rather than looking for their own reasons, so that cart before the horse, there will be no effect.
the face of Internet cafes, as also their parents, loser parents (2)
Some parents complained that children, like Who, Mom and Dad are not such people. Mom and Dad fight so hard for him, just like there is no tutor can be like a child, I really can not. Parents think they paid a lot of children but do not feel, then they should think about how to change.
when small children most need? Not money, not the family business. He needs most is family, is able to snuggle in beside their parents, parents feel real love! Feel that real, tangible warmth! Give him more money, a man on his home, he will not feel happy.
have a girl that, even if you will not have money, I'll support you, and do not let me sleep a person every day. I am particularly eager to return home and the windows are lit, but never had. Every day I go to bed lights on to wake me up when the light is still lit, but did not see her mother.
children of this psychological hunger, in addition to parents, who can heal?
when the children most in need of both parents put off a man his career, leaving little time with their children, he would not look for social stimulation. Small and is responsible for the child, the family is responsible, Broadly is responsible to society. Parents who should shoulder their responsibility now!
children and money which is more important? There is no contradiction? We take a look at how Ma's wife to teach children:
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son, Alibaba should also be considered a He was born in 1992, with our business peers. At that time, our family is one of more than 30 number of people crowded a meeting room full of smoke-filled like a gas chamber, the son can not be shut out of the room. Dinner, always with us dinner. As a result, her son looks more and more like his father, thin bone Lingding like matchsticks support from a big head. Later, we are increasingly busy, 4-year-old son, nursery, fling is 5 days, then come home the weekend before.
now finally be done, and son more than 10 years old. Perhaps influenced by the Ma's, he is particularly interested in the network, quickly learned to play online games, addiction, followed by students in the net bar could not bear to go home. Ma began to persuade and educate his son, 12-year-old son in front of his eloquence defeated. Son back only one sentence: you quit your job right, our family now I need you more than Alibaba. you leave Ali Baba, only a small salary; can not you go home, son, bad future, and how much money could not pull back. son with the money, pick Like what you want? hard-won fame now, and let me resign and stay home full time wife. He took me as what? One piece?
I quit after the attack on his son's game addiction officially opened, fired the first shot is Ma. It was summer, he gave his son 200 bucks and let him go and students playing computer games, playing three days and nights and then come back, but came back to find an answer to a problem --- the benefits of playing the game. After three days, my son came back, first Mengchi a big meal slept, this experience to report: What are the benefits. Add to my care, children began to slowly fade out the network for games.
time when it is misappropriating online games, Shanda, Netease, have launched a new game, according to Ma's style, he will not miss any opportunity to make money. But he just does not do online games on the board so he said: ... ...
son from elementary school to junior high school, I did not pick him, are their own bags to the back of a crowded bus. Now, I resign and stay home to do breakfast every morning, with my son to eat, then drove him to school. Then, I'll go to the farmers market to buy food, go home after a two-meat soup to mix a good prime, accompanied by fruit after dinner, with a snack box was divided into three layers, and then to his son's school gate after school at noon.
I resigned to go home after six months, the son of the performance increased by 17 in the class. Teacher also said that he not only improves learning, and even popular in the class have changed for the better, he grew cheerful, love to laugh, tolerance, within the students from the former into a sunny boy!
- From , varies inside, without a doubt.
problems in the children's education, they can quickly adopt the recommendations of teachers and decisively to implement this best can be said that they used to let children win their hearts and the best option.
many well-meaning parents, under the teacher still could not bear their own careers? As children grow up dangerous period, missed educational opportunities, and ultimately regret.
present, most lacking is for the sake of the parents of the child. To the healthy growth of children, parents have a better mood, more exuberant energy, more time, engaged in their favorite cause, if you can not solve the problem of the child, parents will become a piece of heart disease.
I therefore appeal to parents, the child's formative years, must be willing to spend time on children. Carefully calculate the child can tell you a few years? Through high school as long as, once went to college, do you think of the children meal, you have to solicit the views of the child.
in the child's formative years, the money is not the most valuable, and you give him more money, let him just go and eat a big meal, not like back home, to see my mother, my mother personally eat prepared dishes. Because children need, not just food and clothing, but also mutual affection and care.
child needs, is the most valuable!
invest in children, the return is the most lucrative. Ma's son is happy, I hope that more parents learn Ma couples, their children first.
taught by
● Heart when small children need most is not money, not the family business, but the family is able to grow on the parent side, the feeling of parental love, feeling that real and tangible warmth! You give him more money, let him go to a fancy meal, not as back home, to see my mother, my mother personally prepared dishes to eat. Because children need, not just food and clothing, but also mutual affection and care.
● When the children most in need of both parents put off a man his career, leaving little time with their children, he would not look for social stimulation. Small and is responsible for children, is responsible for the family, Broadly is responsible to society. Parents who should shoulder their responsibilities it.
● Only the child toward the right track, have a better mood, more exuberant energy, more time, engaged in their favorite cause, if you can not solve the problem of the child, will become a piece of your heart.
champion Collection: focus on quality habits, to encourage Internet development interests
- 2010, Anhui science scholar: Zhang Haoyuan (Total 701)
Zhang Haoyuan parents are educators, has always been their focus on the quality of children's culture is the cultivation of habits, the study also gave a lot of guidance. In addition to studying, but Zhang Haoyuan there are many interests and hobbies. He likes playing basketball, football, badminton, or a computer expert, web design, programming are alone. High school three years, Zhang Haoyuan in addition to the Mathematics, Physics Olympiad provincial second prize, he also won second prize in the computer the National Olympic League.
father very early focus on cultivating his interest: Internet curiosity, effective use of computers and networks. Later, he was ninth in Anhui Province in the animation design competition achieved good results.
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